I suffer from bipolar disorder, which was passed on from a long line of women in my family who also have the disorder. because of this I can spot symptoms pretty quickly. Bipolar disorder and schizophrenia run in my husband's side of the family. My husband suffered depression as a kid and was in and out of pshyciatric institutions until he was 16. For as long as I have known him, my husband has not been in treatment or on meds and has been fine - until last April - when he began showing signs of a bipolar personality. In may he confessed that he had cheated on me. Then in Sep. he met a girl and told her he was not married and again told me he was leaving and a lot of other hurtful things, but in the end he stayed and after a brief hiatus we are living together again and working on things but I don't things will get much better (because we still fight all the time) until he acknowledges that he has a problem and needs treatment. I believe his unfaithfulness was in part caused by this.
So, if I read all this correctly, you'd like to know if we think your husband is as stupid as you appear to be. since he did indeed return to you, I would have to answer with a resounding "YES!!!" but please, for all our sakes, whatever you two decide to do, DO NOT BREED!!!
perhaps, someone in his family could help
How about "DO NOT BREED!!! anymore than you already have."?
As much as you want to help your husband, it's time to help yourself only. In time this will help you and your daughter. you cannot MAKE HIM understand wheather he has a disorder or not. the only thing you can be in contol of is how YOU react to this. keep your own healing in focus. Be open minded to the fact that perhaps you are not mentally ill. There are many many many reasons that people become emotionally unstable. "They", being the mental health professionals stand to profit if you have a diagnosis. if you look closely, you will see that EVERYONE is suffering from one form of mental disorder or another at one time. Don't give into this diagnosis of yourself for you and for the child you have created. Bottom line, focus only on yourself and you will be more valuable emotionally for your daughter. just someting to think about, not trying to do anything here other than to get you to think hard about yourself now, not him.
My ex cheated and used the EXCUSE that he had a mental illness. Bipolar Disorder and/or schizophrenia is not an excuse for cheating. do not put up with it. tell him to get counseling or get out.
you arent from Louisiana are ya..I think yall both need some help together.
i don't think you can convincing him, he had help....but he did not want help. I am not saying give up on him cause anyone can change. i would work on my self, and get help for my self because you should not let him treat you thisd wAY
Love him sincerely.. He's ur husband anyway.. Quarell wont make a solution.. only love.. Love him more and more and then only u can do anything.. if he starts loving u too, then u can take him for councelling.. U can convince him.. Try it out.. In some cases its a success..
HI,I'm a Bordeline pts, normaly peoples feel somewere lost if the belovedpeople is not around then you can convins him that if it goes on then he would be the remy..and you will be lost not te be found, find a better man who loves you enough who's eager enough to stay by you..a man cheat only if he's not interested anymore..i'm sory but i'm allso a man
I need help convincing my husband...?
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